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Jan. 4th, 2008 | 01:52 pm

DS has been home two weeks now. For the most part, it's been pretty good. He learned some great things on the ranch: hard work the most valuable. We scurried around and changed as much of the environment as we could -- some of that helped, some doesn't seem to have made a difference. Honestly? I guess I expected too much. I wanted a completely reformed child. I got a son who learned a good work ethic whilst in the trenches with a bunch of other juvie delinqents who traded secrets with him. Secrets he's now trying to figure out, test and see if the covert information works or not. That's the problem with the system once you're in it: the folks you are with are just as off base as the ones the courts are trying to get you to stay away from!

SIGH.

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mjmoore_uk

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from: [info]mjmoore_uk
date: Jan. 4th, 2008 09:56 pm (UTC)
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Hang in there darlin' - I know things weren't exactly what you expected, but let's hope there has been some good from it. You will both continue in my prayers. {hugs}

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date: Jan. 5th, 2008 01:33 pm (UTC)
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Hang in there with him. Recovery is a process not an event. If he has a real desire to maintain the change, he'll be okay. Just stand your ground and make it clear what the rules are and what you will and will not tolerate.


Chicki

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date: Jan. 8th, 2008 02:44 am (UTC)
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I can't imagine how hard this must be. Hang in there and stay strong. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dawn

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mjmoore_uk

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from: [info]mjmoore_uk
date: Jan. 10th, 2008 03:25 pm (UTC)
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You have an award! (Unfortunately, that means you've been tagged too.. sorry! ;) ) http://mjmoore.wordpress.com/2008/01/10/an-award/ for details.

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date: Jan. 10th, 2008 11:01 pm (UTC)
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yes...this is very true...i am right there with you

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